October 18, 2013

Office Politics...Lesson Learned!!

Hey all you bloggers, its the month of Halloween and of course the Oktoberfest is here!!

Office Politics. Ever heard of it?

When you hear the phrase “office politics,” what comes to mind?
Do you imagine:
  • Favoritism
  • Back-stabbing
  • “Makes me want to run and hide”
  • Cronyism
  • Self-interest
It’s not a pretty list, is it?  Yet, whenever I talk with my friends about “office politics” their viewpoints tend towards these types of words. Which is actually I find it TRUE INDEED. And everybody has a really 'GOOD' experience with office politics....being manipulated is one of it and it already happen here quite sometimes in my offices.

I learned that no matter what your company, you’ve probably encountered organizational politics. Most of the people you work with misaligned priorities, pursuit personal goals, and unresolved issues — all often lumped under the umbrella of “politics.” And there's always one person among of all staff in the organization really don't like to see you up in cloud nine and will always tend to bring you down. Jealous!!!

Here are just a few lessons I’ve learned:

1. Always give honest responses.

2. You don’t have to be friends with everyone.

3. Don’t settle in too much.
“If I had to, I could clean out my desk in five seconds, and nobody would ever know I had ever been here. And I’d forget, too.”

4. Everyone has distractions that sidetracks the task at hand.
“When I discovered YouTube, I didn’t work for five days. I did nothing. I watched Cookie Monster sing Chocolate Rain about a thousand times.”

5. It’s OK to think about the end of the day, no matter how much you love your job.
“Lord, beer me strength.”

6. Sometimes work makes you irrational and cranky.
“I want to clamp that 21 lady face in a George Foreman grill.”

7. Dreams die. Find new ones and move on.

8. Just be yourself.

9. You will ALWAYS have to do math.

10. Performance reviews are arbitrary and subjective to your supervisor’s mood.
Awww...this is so damn true!! Its happens everyday, so welcome to HELL.

11. Don’t skip lunch. It’s your one bright spot in a bad day.
"Whenever I encounter one of my worst day, food is your best friend" my friend told me this afternoon when we had our lunch together and I think its reasonable, I mean you can't resist food because food is tasty (in general). At least it helps you feel better.

12. No one will ever really understand what you do for a living.

14. Your office is not your home. It is not worth dying for the job…unless your job is saving lives. Get out.
“Nobody should have to go to work thinking, oh this is the place that I might die today. That’s what a hospital is for…”

People said we should be a professional when handling with work but believe me...I know a few people that handling work that use "PROFESSIONALISM" in their own way. Hmm...way to go jerk!!  Here's an advise for you : Please try not involved any emotion or get revenge on something or to somebody you don't like and misused your powers. You should be a LEADER NOT A BOSS.

Well the conclusion is.....It’s easy to use “politics” as an excuse for a lack of achievement or an outlet for your frustration. But it may be a lot more effective to use “politics” as a way to get things done.

Until then, Happy Halloween everybody
P/S Watch out for Micheal #Thriller

September 2, 2013

Monday Pink

( From Left to right: me , Shirley, and Wen Ying )

Although some people said Monday Blue but we prefer ( for today) Monday Pink.

Photo via Shirley

August 31, 2013

Sisterhood on Independent Day

Spending quality time with my other half before going to work....Ah my sis pic always better than  mine. Happy Merdeka to all Malaysian out there and enjoy your weekend!!

August 25, 2013

Borneo International Marathon 2013

Hey all you bloggers, this morning I just finished my FIRST 21KM Borneo International Marathon!! YAY !! It was really great as everybody were very excited about it (...and feeling nervous too!!) Well I've participated 10KM for last year and this year I go with 21KM. Really of proud of all the people who have joined this big event. Well your legs will forgive you ...eventually I almost cry because of the muscle pain attack and were really exhausted especially when we reached the 19KM. And yes we still need to keep going because we don't want to waste our time. Here's the photo after we all done running

 photo via @cas_lah

Right run I had to continue my work (..we even get our self fake puppy dog tattoo!!) but thank God it doesn't involved any big movement as even if I walk to the shops and buying drinks, I still felt the muscle pain. Of course I hope it would heal by tomorrow (Cross finger...)

photo via Elsie M

August 9, 2013

Happy Eids and God Bless everyone

Wishing everybody out there a  GREAT AND AMAZING EIDS of the year. * Life is ....so far so good!

May 23, 2013

Welcome to the board, Baby Rafael

Today our office office celebrating one of the staff newborn baby full moon, and I was excited to hold the baby for the FIRST TIME!! Lucky I didn't drop the baby as I'm not good holding newborn baby (trust me....I've dropped my younger brother when I was ten and turned out the whole night was a "THUNDERSTORM" inside the house...yikes!!)

May 6, 2013

Life has treating me well

Hey all you bloggers,  I'm having a break time from work so uploading some pictures of how good life been treating me recently ;)

Spending quality time with friends after work was indeed one of my greatest thing to do in life. Well without it, I'm sad

                                                                    Pic via HSH

 This is when our first night run for the Borneo Marathon, well I'm always the slowest in the group but as long as I keep running and enjoying myself, no bother at all. Life's Great !

...and my twins who always play an important role in my life and a loyal supporter!!

April 14, 2013

Simple Plan - SUMMER PARADISE feat. Taka from ONE OK ROCK

This is my new track addict...I just love the lyrics with Japanese touch of it.
This is really GREAT SONG

March 29, 2013


Picture via @Cas_lah

 We just celebrates one of our friends birthday and she was totally surprised!!

ah~ Moment of love.

February 10, 2013

Let's Welcome the Water Snake!

First of all, I would like to wish Everyone Happy Chinese New Year and have blast for this year. Ancient Chinese wisdom says a Snake in the house is a good omen because it means your family will not starve. This could be taken metaphorically to mean that a Snake could never have a problem with his family starving because he is such a great mediator, making him good at business. Or it could mean that a Snake would be willing to sacrifice his possessions, something the Snake has a lot of, in order to pay for his family’s food. Any way it is interpreted is representative of the Snake’s character and is a measure of the value he puts on his material wealth. Well I'm a 'sheep' according to the Chinese zodiac (the metal sheep to be exact) and this year I have to work my butt off so that everything will fall into places. I'm not trying to say I'm superstitious but for our family we it's a tradition. Working on CNY really tiring but worth it in terms of financial.
Yes, I cut my hair, look pretty though
..and food really scared of me (with my friend) So Again We everyone, and all blogger out there have a very Great Chinese New Year and may this year will bring you luck, health, wealth and prosperity ^_^

January 16, 2013


My twins was diagnosed with Salivary gland infection, ughh...it hurt when someone that you trust and care in your live is sick with stupid illness and you can't do anything...

Pray to God

January 1, 2013

2012 in Brief

Hey all you bloggers, we're now entering a New Year after struggling with ups and down in 2012. I hope everything goes well with you guys out there in 2012 ( well my sister don't...she looking forward to 2013 as 2012 brings her BAD LUCK!).

Year of 2012 being very nice to me since the very beginning; this might sound a bit cliche but I have the opportunity to travel be it short and long distance.
2012 in Brief

1) Finished my last report of Training
2) Marine Awareness - Save The Giant
3) Went for Site Inspection in Semporna and Product update: I and II
4) My life lesson from a Tree
5) One of my Happiest Moment - Graduation Day
6) My first-time-Ever Paintball Match (...and believe me, after playing one game, you really love to 'KILL'

7) 7K Charity Run - "Run Forest! RUN"
8) 'Can February March' - The Opportunity to March with STB staff here
9) Spend some quality time with family during Eids
10) Attending my friends Wedding - Big Congratulation!
11) Break our fast at our Chairman's place during Ramadhan
12) Corporate Training Family day with all STB Staff here
13) My First time out of the Country - Invading Japan!
14) The 'Dooms' day - Learn from MISTAKE, always the breaking point
15) And of course...CHRISTMAS

Well I really love 2012 (Year of Dragon)and I hope I'll be able to receive more love in 2013, and New Year resolution...err I haven't think about it yet, but keep on track everyone. (..Gosh)